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" My Appa " -- The "Man" just for us !!! in Everything and anything

*********** Appa *********** 

You are the one who taught me what is life all about and how to handle it ... 

“Dadda” is my real “Super Hero” who gave me life to Live for myself, though he was losing it at times. However, he always makes sure that we win with him.

A Simple man with a tool bag heavier than him and with a small lunch box, leaves for work, before even my day starts.  Yeah that's my "Appa”!!!!

His day starts with a simple message to his kids (when we are still sleeping) “I love you chellam” and to Amma (who is already in the kitchen almost completed with her household works and ready for her school). Then thanking God for her lovely life through with simple prayers.   glancing through his favorite newspaper (Daily flower) with amma’s awesome filter coffee. Then pack his bag and that to work with a lovely smile on his face which is an awesome feeling.  
Back in work, the track lines and signaling cabins will be waiting for Mr.Raghunathan and happy working starts!!!

·       Dedication to the core.
·       Aspiration to learn new things.
·       Enjoying the work and life in the simple way has they come.
·       Expectations and assumptions nowhere seen or raised in heart or mind.

Comes home with the same smile and enjoying his paper again.Few chit chats, family discussions with us at home and a very good night!!!!!

From this lovely and simple life, we have learnt so many things and still learning awesome things.
Appa always thought us and still teaching us:

·      To be simple.
·      To be Humble and Kind.
·       Don't take things to head which are not at all required or unwanted stuffs.
·       Mind and Soul are lovely things Which should be surrendered to Rama.
·     Rama is the ultimate power and divine, to whom we can leave everything to him and he will take care of everything as he is the ultimate ruler.
·       Treat achievements and failure the same way and learn from both.
·       Listen more and react less.
·       When you get something feel good and at the same time when you don't get something feel better …. since you don't have to take care of something which does not belong to you.
·     If something happens to you it’s Good for you!!! If not it’s not meant for you, something better is waiting for you J
·        Keep enjoying life as it comes without any expectations.
·        Keep smiling keep the humor in your life and in you Alive and spread happiness.
·       On top of all, if you are sad first of all stop thinking about it and Leave it to God he will take care of it.
·       Just be yourself.

What not, Appa thought as so many important things in life and still teaching us !!!!! thank you “Appa” love you always for this lovely life J J J

Comments

  1. Beautiful G3 , and no wonder your dad must have a beautiful soul .I can make that out by reading things about him ,can see it's all for real and nothing to fake about .That's the fact we are really lucky to have God like parents who have done so much for us , and they are always teaching us so many things still.I truly feel you and your vibes are really great dear.Continue writing what comes in your beautiful mind .I wish all learn from you as every time I see you with loads of positivity and your presence is so powerful and pleasing .So much pleasure being around you .I feel very emotional when I think about my parents or even by your writing about your dad as my dad is also same , and this just melts you .You are blessed to have great dad and great mind to understand this and acknowledge it.Once again,thanks for sharing,loved it 100 percent.😇😇😘

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    1. woww deary.. Thq so much :) My pleasure..

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  2. Your have spoken your heart and mind G3.. One can make out how simple and loving your Appa is.. Dad's share a special bonding with their dearest daughter/s.. Its regardless to say, The Only person who never hurts their daughter and treat them as Princess is "Appa"!! Respect and Salute to all their lovely gestures, caring behaviour and abundant experiences they have shared with us which are making us a better person !!��

    May you have many more wonderful memories to cherish for the lifetime..��

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  3. He gave me a rose when I visited ur home to drop u... Sweet gesture... My hi to uncle

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  4. Nice article Gayithri, one good thing that I took from today's article is, simplicity, always is attractive and flawless..
    Keep it going, eager to know what comes next :)

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    1. Vry vry true Ji... Thq and keep following :)

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  5. G3 for me God is Nature. It is pure and soothing. So is your heart sweetheart. You rock because of your creators. They have nurtured you with so much positivity. Those are the guide for leading life. Beauty of life lies in simplicity. Seriously that's why I say I see Rama in you my friend.

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  6. G3 you are blessed to have such a wonderfull Daada☺ Lots of positive energy....Felt very good.....I will also follow you Daada's teachings.Thank you for sharing with us.

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  7. Super Akka!! Your way of expressing is superb!!

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  8. Lovely to read....And no surprise at all as it comes from one and only G3
    You truly rock!

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